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Fantasy Scenarios

Savage Love I am a straight married man. My wife and I have a 4-year-old and a 3-month-old. We’ve just started having intercourse again. For Valentine’s Day, we spent the night in a B&B while grandma watched the ki...

Wednesday, February 22, 2017 Dan Savage

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Pair of Aces

Savage Love I’ve been reading your advice column in the Coast in Halifax for a while, and it seems that most solutions to relationship problems revolve around sex.

Wednesday, February 15, 2017 Dan Savage

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Wilbur & Rensselaer

Savage Love Last week, I spoke at the Wilbur Theater in Boston and the Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute in Troy, New York. Audience members submitted their questions on tiny cards before the show, allowing them to remain a...

Wednesday, February 8, 2017 Dan Savage

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Advice Columnists Without Borders

Savage Love I am a 26-year-old heterosexual European man. I have been for four years in a monogamous relationship with my girlfriend. Recently she cheated on me. When she told me what she did, I felt a very strong pain, ev...

Wednesday, February 1, 2017 Dan Savage

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Savage Love I am quite the follower on social media—Facebook and Twitter in particular. I make no trolling comments, no #MAGA hashtags; I just look with my male gaze.

Wednesday, January 25, 2017 Dan Savage

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Risky Business

Savage Love About a year ago, I was pretending to read my boyfriend’s mind and jokingly said, “You want to put it in my ear.” Since then, I have seen references to ear sex (aural sex?) everywhere!

Wednesday, January 18, 2017 Dan Savage

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Savage Love My partner and I have been playing with male chastity devices. We’ve been considering going to a strip club while his cock is caged up and getting him lap dances.

Wednesday, January 11, 2017 Dan Savage

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Just Drinks

Savage Love My brother is a virgin and turning 30 in a few weeks. He said he wants to hire an escort just for drinks and conversation for his birthday, but he doesn’t really know how to tell what’s a reliable service o...

Wednesday, January 4, 2017 Dan Savage

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The Intern | Revolution Hall

Savage Love I’m having an issue with my boyfriend, and I don’t know if I am the crazy, paranoid, controlling party here. We have been together for more than a year and a half. We had troubles early on because he has a ...

Wednesday, December 21, 2016 Dan Savage

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Slouching Toward 2017

Savage Love Perhaps you’re not the best person to ask, being a cis white man, but as a queer woman of color, the election had an extremely detrimental effect on my relationships with my white partners. I love and care fo...

Wednesday, December 14, 2016 Dan Savage
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