Aug. 20, 2017
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Savage Love I’ve been wondering: Since there are lesbians out there who occasionally crave cock, does the reverse also happen? Are there gay men who occasionally crave pussy?

Wednesday, August 16, 2017 Dan Savage

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Commit to Something

Savage Love My boyfriend of eight months, K, and I are polyamorous. We started the relationship on that foot, and for a while I was the partner he spent the most time with. There have been ups and downs, but overall our re...

Wednesday, August 9, 2017 Dan Savage

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Crossed Dressers

Savage Love My wife has been seriously ill for three years, and I have been her sole caregiver.

Wednesday, August 2, 2017 Dan Savage

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Come Again

Savage Love I’m a reader in Kansas with two teenage daughters, 16 and 18. My girls recently met a boy where they work and both took an interest in him.

Wednesday, July 26, 2017 Dan Savage

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Come Again

Savage Love I’m a 35-year-old straight woman, recently married, and everything is great. But I have been having problems reaching orgasm.

Wednesday, July 19, 2017 Dan Savage

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Savage Love I’m a gay medical student with a medical fetish, and I can’t even open up to my therapist about this. I think the fetish started when I was young; I was once in the hospital and given a suppository for a fe...

Wednesday, July 12, 2017 Dan Savage

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Savage Love I’m a 29-year-old straight woman facing a dilemma. I dated this guy about a year ago, and in many ways he was exactly the guy I was looking for. The main hitch was sexual.

Wednesday, July 5, 2017 Dan Savage

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The Music Box

Savage Love I had a great time at the live taping of the Savage Lovecast at Chicago’s Music Box Theatre. Audience members submitted questions on cards, and I tackled as many questions as I could over two hours.

Wednesday, June 28, 2017 Dan Savage

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Savage Love I am a 34-year-old straight woman. I’m monogamous and have an avoidant attachment style. I’ve been seeing a guy I really like. He’s just my type, the kind of person I’ve been looking for my whole life.

Wednesday, June 21, 2017 Dan Savage

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Virgin Territory

Savage Love I’m almost 30 and I’m a virgin. I’m an overweight, straight-ish guy (I’m attracted to a few men, but those cases are exceedingly rare).

Wednesday, June 14, 2017 Dan Savage
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