June 26, 2017
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Savage Love


Savage Love I am a 34-year-old straight woman. I’m monogamous and have an avoidant attachment style. I’ve been seeing a guy I really like. He’s just my type, the kind of person I’ve been looking for my whole life.

Wednesday, June 21, 2017 Dan Savage

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Virgin Territory

Savage Love I’m almost 30 and I’m a virgin. I’m an overweight, straight-ish guy (I’m attracted to a few men, but those cases are exceedingly rare).

Wednesday, June 14, 2017 Dan Savage

Savage Love

Get Out

Savage Love I hate how my boyfriend has sex with me. He is 40 years old. It used to be fine, but a year ago he started adding new moves he obviously got from porn.

Wednesday, June 7, 2017 Dan Savage

Savage Love


Savage Love I’m a middle-aged homo trying to figure out Grindr. Is it impolite to go on Grindr if you’re not looking for an immediate hookup?

Wednesday, May 31, 2017 Dan Savage

Savage Love


Savage Love I have two female sex partners who want to be breath-play dominated. I know the practice is dangerous, and I employ the rules of consent and communication a pro-Dom escort friend taught me.

Wednesday, May 24, 2017 Dan Savage

Savage Love


Savage Love I’m a happily married straight man. My wife, who is 33 years old, cannot orgasm through intercourse since we had our last child. Her explanation is that she has this constant sensation to pee.

Wednesday, May 17, 2017 Dan Savage

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Traps and Triggers

Savage Love My husband is nearly 20 years older than me, which was never an issue early in our relationship.

Wednesday, May 10, 2017 Dan Savage

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The Leftovers

Savage Love Nancy, the tech-savvy at-risk youth, two gimps, Christ on the cross, the Easter Bunny, two weeping women, and the Easter Bunny’s smoking-hot leather master took to the stage at Revolution Hall in Portland, ...

Wednesday, May 3, 2017 Dan Savage

Savage Love


Savage Love I’ve got a question about initiating sex in my sleep—I read somewhere that “sexsomnia” is the “medical” term, but maybe the internet invented that?

Wednesday, April 26, 2017 Dan Savage

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Dick Monsters

Savage Love I’m a queer girl living with a male partner. This weekend, we found ourselves in an after-hours club, made some new friends, and ended up at a house with two other guys and a girl.

Wednesday, April 19, 2017 Dan Savage
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