April 28, 2017
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Savage Love I’ve got a question about initiating sex in my sleep—I read somewhere that “sexsomnia” is the “medical” term, but maybe the internet invented that?

Wednesday, April 26, 2017 Dan Savage

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Dick Monsters

Savage Love I’m a queer girl living with a male partner. This weekend, we found ourselves in an after-hours club, made some new friends, and ended up at a house with two other guys and a girl.

Wednesday, April 19, 2017 Dan Savage

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Hard Limits

Savage Love I’ve read your column for as long as I had access to the internet and was interested in sex, so here goes: I’m a 27-year-old male with a 42-year-old girlfriend. We met at work; we were both going through di...

Wednesday, April 12, 2017 Dan Savage

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Domme and Dommer

Savage Love I’m a woman in my late 40s. In my early 20s, I married a much older man. We did all the requisite things: kids, house, intercourse once a week.

Wednesday, April 5, 2017 Dan Savage

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Positive Thinking

Savage Love Gay guy here. Met a guy online. He came over. We had incredible sex and then a great conversation lasting several hours. But—and you knew there was one coming—he told me that he lied about his HIV status.

Wednesday, March 29, 2017 Dan Savage

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Curious Minds

Savage Love I recently spoke at Curious Minds Weekend in Toronto at the Hot Docs Ted Rogers Cinema. Audience members submitted questions on cards before the show—anonymously—but the moderator, Lisan Jutras and I were h...

Wednesday, March 22, 2017 Dan Savage

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Wishful Kinking

Savage Love I went to Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, the big kink hotel takeover event in Washington, DC, in February. There was one thing I saw there that is messing with my head, and I hope you can set me straight.

Wednesday, March 15, 2017 Dan Savage

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Defining Decency Down

Savage Love My wife and I have a decent sex life. Pretty vanilla, but we’re busy with work, chores, and life in general with two small kids, so I can’t complain too much.

Wednesday, March 8, 2017 Dan Savage

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Come Now

Savage Love Fortyish, straight, white dude here. I have this weird (possibly misogynistic) belief that, when it comes to sex, I can’t win. Actually, I think men in general can’t win.

Wednesday, March 1, 2017 Dan Savage

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Fantasy Scenarios

Savage Love I am a straight married man. My wife and I have a 4-year-old and a 3-month-old. We’ve just started having intercourse again. For Valentine’s Day, we spent the night in a B&B while grandma watched the ki...

Wednesday, February 22, 2017 Dan Savage
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